Taking value/Giving value
Over the past few months I feel like iv really come far in my understanding of human to human interaction but there’s one thing that iv been wanting to touch on for a while and that’s Taking value/Giving value.
From going out into bars and clubs and socialising with people iv come to understand that these are the only 2 things really going on when a guy is interacting with women he finds attractive or a girl is interacting with a guy she finds attractive. Thorough the course of the interaction they will both be either Taking value or giving value to each other in SOME FORM.
It’s really hard for me to put this into words but it’s happening all the time, I mean for example on a night out you’ll see guys who are trying to grind girls on the dance floor or just blatantly hovering around them in a needy way with hungry eyes, you can latterly FEEL them wanting to TAKE VALUE from the girls in a, “haha LOOK at meeeee grinding this hot chick I am the shiiiiiiiiiiit haha” kind of way, instead of a
“LOOK at this girl TRYING to get in with me by grinding me”, the 2 are very different and noticeable.
Now from my experience iv come to the conclusion that girls trying to TAKE VALUE FROM ME works a lot more in my favour, that’s what negs/C-f are designed for, to make the girl want to attempt to take value from you by getting to know you.
Now don’t get me wrong Taking value/Giving value is not a bad thing if used probably in your favour.
You should always be the one offering value and not feel the need to forcibly TAKE others, like with AMOGing when you AMOG some one and they REACT it comes across as them trying to TAKE VALUE from you because they see you as someone worth reacting to, now if they where to say nothing you would be seen as the one trying to TAKE VALUE from them because your reacting to them.
When I approach am trying to approach in a why that says “am talking to you because “I” have SOOOOOO much VALUE am giving people the chance to take some of that for them self’s, so if your willing to put effort in to this interaction the only thing you’ll be doing is INCREASING your own value” and what person doesn’t want to increase there market value huh
That’s all I got on this Taking value/Giving value thing so far will try and explain it in more detail when I gain a better understanding of it.
